HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECONDS Summary IN HINDI part 1, kisi ko bhi attract kaise kare,how to make people like you in 90 seconds,how to attract a women in just 90 seconds

Summary HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECONDS IN HINDI BY NICHOLAS BOOTHMAN

HEY DOSTO
Aaj mai aapko batauga ki aap kaise kisi bhi insaan ko attract krke
Impress karsakte hai bus Unse 90 seconds baat karke
Or yaha author 90 seconds isliye kehre hai kyuki
Reasearch batati hai or aapko bhi pata he hoga ki
Ajj kal hum insaano ka attention span kitna kam
Ho chuka hai

For Example -: ek mazine ads ke paas bus 2 seconds hote hai
Aapka attention grab krne ke liye
usske andar agr aapko ads psnd aata hai to he aap usse thoda
attention doge warna nhi doge or simply aage badh jaoge
usse ignore karke

same isi tarah jo humara impression hota hai wo dusre log bht jaldi banlete hai
hume bus kuch seconds mai judge krne ke baad he
isliye ye zaruri hojata hai ki hum us starting ke time he dusro pe
ek acha impression bana le or unka attention bhi saat saat capture kar sake
jo ki ek bht usefull cheez ho sakta hai aapki ek personal or professional
life ko achi karne mai
zyada tar log jab phele baar kisi se milte hai tab unhe kya baat krna hai samj nhi
aata wo nervous hone lagte hai awkward behave karne lagte hai
jiska result ye hota hai ki fir saamne waale ke saat unka itna acha relation nhi bana paata
kayi baar to unhe log naa pasand bhi karne lagte hai or waps unse baat karne ka
sochte nhi kyuki pheli baar he unka itna kharab impression mil gya hota hai saamne waale ko
so agr aap kuch aisa chahte  ho ki aisa kabhi aapke saat na ho to ya aapko kabhi
kisi logo se strong connections banana ho ya sikhna hai unse baate karke unka dil
jeetna sikhna hai to aaj is post mai aapke saat yahi sab share kruga
or inhi topics k wajah se meri life 10th ke baad bht achi hogyi hai
main reason meri mentality thi jo sab books ne change krdi hai
so aaj mai aapko ye sab sikhane waala hu mai aapko batauga ki kaise
aap emotional level pe connections bana sakte ho kisi bhi insaan ke saat
kaise hume dusro se baat krna chahiye? kya baat krna chahiye? etc etc.
jin saari cheezo ko aap achese samjne ke baad aap ek pakka professioal level
waale communicator to ban he jaoge to chaliye sikhte hai
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kar sakte hai
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mai aapko sikhta hu jo aapke life mai itni value create kregi ki koi soch nhi sakta
 agr aap in sabko achese pratice karte ho to chaliye start karte hai
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SO LET'S BEGIN

ab ye saari cheeze jo maine aapko batayi hai inhe possible karne ke liye
aapko 3 parts ko achese samjna hoga

1. MEETING
2.ESTABLISHING RAPPORT
3. COMMUNICATING

kisi bhi insaan ke saat milna or unse communication start karna
in dono important steps ke bich mai ek 90 seconds ka window aata hai
jaha aap rapport create karke saamne waale ko impress karsakte hai
or ek emotional level ka connection bana sakte ho
ab rapport hota kya hai mai aapko aage achese explain kruga to
iske baare mai itna mat socho so ab ki ye 3no steps he kaafi important hai
to mai aapko in teeno steps ke baare mai achese explain kruga

So Start Karte Hai

NO.1 MEETING Se
kisi se bhi milne ke aap 3-4 second mai he ek right impression dedete ho to isse
aap saamne waale ko aap safe ,trustworthy,sincere lagne lagoge jo rapport create
karne ke liye bht zyada zaruri hota hai
so abhi mai aapko 5 chote tips duga jo karke aap kuch seconds mai he ek
right impression create kar paoge

NO.1 BE OPEN
matlab apne attitude or body language ko open rakhna na ki closed
example :- jab aap apne haat ekdam band ke khade ho ya pair (legs) ko chipkake
khade ho ya fir aap bht kam space leke khade ho ya baithe ho to ye sab example hai
CLOSE BODY language ke
jabki agr aap apne haat open rakhte ho pair(legs) ke bich mai gap dete ho
ya achi space leke khade rehte ho ya baithe rehte ho  to ye OPEN BODY language ke
examples hai
 so aap try kro ki jab bhi kisi se milo to aapki body language open honi chahiye naki close
fir aap logo ko impressive lagoge

NO.2 EYE CONTACT
aapko shayad ye nhi pata hoga ki eye contact rakhna kitna powerful ho sakta hai
baar karte time so yaha mai is baare mai zyada nhi boluga
bus aap itna yaad rakho ki baat karte waqt eye contact karne se aap
saamne waale ko confident or attractive lagoge ho or ispe researches bhi yahi kehti hai
jabki agr aap kisi se baat karte waqt bht kam eye contact krte ho
to wo aapkosamjhege ki aap nervous ho jhut bolre ho or unki baato mai
interested nhi ho jo ki saamne waale ko bilkul bhi psnd nhi aata hai

ab dosto dekho aisa bhi nhi hai ki aap baat karte waqt kahi or dekho he mat
eye contact he bana ke rakho  bus jinta aapko situation ke hisab se sahi lage
utna he eye contact kro nhi to ekdam kroge to aap saamne waale ko ajeeb lagoge
75% eye contact banana hai aapko

NO.3 BEAM
matlab ek genuine smile eye contact karne ke baad aapko kya krna chahiye ki
saamne waale se phele unhe ek genuine smile halki si deni chahiye
or ye cheez aapka postive attitude reflect karegi
or aapko ek friendly smile deni chahiye na ki creepy waali

NO.4 GREETING
ab smile karne ke baad baat start karne ke phele aapko bht achi tone or
energy ke saat unhe greet krna chahiye
hi ,hello, hola  ya jis bhi tarike se aap baat start krna chahte ho wo bolo
or ye bhi yaad rakho aap jitna achese aap khud ko introduce kroge
utna he achese aapko saamne waala introduce krega
or ek or baat ye he sahi time hota hai saamne waale ko better janne ka
example-: agr aap kisi se milke bologe hello
to saamne waale he usually he utna he reply dega hello ya hie bolke
or bus fir chup ho jaiga jo cheezo ko awkward bana sakta hai

lekin agr aap bologe hello mera naam kaunain hai or mai ek blogger hu
to aapko bhi saamne se itna bada he reply aaega like
mera naam virat hai or mai ek cricketer hu
mai jaanta hu ye example best nhi hai lekin aapko samj mai agaya hoga
jitna achese aap apne aap ko introduce kroge utna achese aapko reply milega
jiske madad se aap baat ko aaram se aage badha sakte ho 

NO.5 LEAN
saamne waale se aap baat krte time thoda lean krna matlab thoda jhukna
zyada nhi balke thodasa ye body language saamne waale ko dikhati hai ki aap unme
interested ho or open bhi ho
so aap ye bhi kar sakte ho lekin try kro ki aap opposite sex se milte waqt kam kro
ya soch samj kar karo nhi to aap saamne waale ko needy or desporate lagoge jo ki
bht kharab lagta hai 



2 part aata hai ESTABLISHING RAPPORT ka
ye part teeno part mai se sabse zyada IMPORTANT hai kyuki
yaha aap logo se mental or emotional  level pe deep connection bana paoge
jiske wajah se log aapko psnd karne lagege ek alg he level pe
kyuki jaise aap sabhi ko to pata he hoga ki hum humans emotional creatures hai
jo mostly dimag se nhi balke dil se decision lete hai or rapport hume wo emotional
level pe connection banane mai help krta hai
dusro ki feelings or emotion ko samjte hue
so abhi mai aapko strong rapports build karne ke liye kuch points batauga

NO.1 ATTITUDE
kabhi kabhi dekho aap kisi close frnd ya relative se baat krre hoto ho
tabhi aapko realize hota hai ki wo thode sad ya gusse mai hai
aap unse puchte ho ki kya hua or wo tab ek jhuti smile karke bolte hai
are kuch nhi mai thik hu
jispar aapko bilkul yakin nahi hota or fir baadme aapko pata chalta hai
ki aap sahi the well hume koi to reasons ke wajah se pata chal jaata hai ki
wo jhut bolre the par aapne kabhi socha hai ki hume aisa kaise pata chal jaat hai
bina unke bole or dosto iska answer hai unke ATTITUDE se kyuki dekho humara jo attitude
hota hai wo directly impact karta hai humare mind par jo puri tarah se connected hai
humari body se isliye hoga kya ki agr aapka attitude he gusse waala rahega
fir aap kitne bhi pyaar se baat krne ki koshish krlo gussa aapke face ke expression
se voice se or body language se logo ko samj he ajaiga jo fir aapko rapport
build karne nhi dega 

isliye aap try kro ki angry ,bored, rude aisi negative attitude ke bajaye
relax , supportive etc jaisa positive  attitude ke saat logo se baat karo

NO.2 ART OF SYNCHRONIZATION
agar samjho aapko agr footbal psnd hai to aapki unlogo ke saat zyada jamegi
jinko football mai interest rakhte hai
agr aap Business mai interest rakhte ho to aapko bhi usme interest rakhne waale
log psnd aaege or time spend karna zyada easy lagega
aisehe aap dekhoge similar type ke jo log hote hai
wo ek dusre ke saat jaldi comfortable hote hai or acha time spend kar sakte hai
usse ban jaata hai acha relation
kyu? kyuki fact yahi batata hai usually hume wo log zyada psnd aate hai or hum
unke saat zyada rehna psnd karte hai  JO HUMARE JAISE HOTE HAI
JINKI SOCH HUMARE JAISI HOTO HAI
IDEA OR PASAND HUMARE JAISI HOTI HAI

or humesha to nhi par most of the time humari unse kam jamti hai jo humare
bilkul opposite cheeze karte hai
isiliye agr hum logo se synchronize krege ya unke jaisi cheeze krge to
ye hume unke saat rapport banane mai bht help karegi
abhi mai thoughts or idea ki baat nhi kruga kyuki wo sabke alg alg hote hai
most of the time
par mai practical cheezo ki baat kruga jo sabke liye same ho sakti hai
jisse hum sync krke saamne waale ke saat easily connection bana sakte hai


dusro ke saat aapko sync krne ke liye aapko 3V pe dhayan dena hoga
1. VISUAL 2.VOCAL 3.VERBAL

55% jo humara communication hota hai vo VISUAL cheezo se hota hai specifically bolu
to aapki body language se

38% communication depend krti hai VOCAL matlab humari voice tone se

or bus 7% depend krti hai VERBAL  aapke communication pe
matlab aap jo cheez jo word bolte ho or jpo baate krte ho
wo sab


so yaha hume ye pata chalta hai ki humari sabse zyada important hoti hai body language
jo sync krna sabse zyada important hota hai or body language sync karne ke liye
aap ek simple technique use kar sakte ho jo ki mai bhi bht use krta hu

jisse bolte hai MIRRORING
yaha aapko zyada kuch nhi bus aapko saamne waale insaan ki body lanhuage ko copy krna hota hai
example:- agr wo baat krte krte apne haat ke uper haat rakh rahe hai
to aap bhi halke se apne haat ke uper haat rakhlo
agr wo aapke taraf thoda lean hore hai kuch bolne ke liye to aap bhi
unki taraf lean ho or jitni bhi level pe aap baat krre ho unse aap body language ko copy
karsakte ho or kro unki body language copy

or ye bhi dhyan rakho
ki unhe samj na aae ki aap unhe kisi reason se copy karre ho e
example aap aisa matlab karna agr wo apna shoulder sahi karre ho to aap bhi
wahi copy karo isse pata chal jaiga ki kuch to gadbad hai or rapport form
nahi hoga

ab karte hai second v ki baat jo hai VOICE TONE
aapke bolne ke tarike pe 38 % depend hoti hai so ye sync krna bhi bht
zaruri hai 

vocal sync karne ke liye jo aap copy kar sakte ho vo hai uski voice
matlab agr koi aapse kuch ekdam excited hoke kuch puch raha hai
so aap bhi uska answer ekdam excited hokar do
example:- agr aapko ek dost aakar bolta hai ki
mai bht khush hu mere 6 may ko exams khatam hone waale hai khub maze karege
to aapka answer kuch isi tarike se hona chahiye haa yaar kitna maza aaega
jab tumhare exams khatam hoge dono mikar bht maze krege
aise rply ekdam excited hokar kro
ek or example agr koi bole kaise ho yaar bade dino baat dikhe
or aap unki voice tone mai kuch aisa bole hai yaar sachmai bht dino baad mile hai
or similarly aap dusre voice tone ko bhi sync kar skte ho
or aapko jo iske saat or cheeze sync kar sakte ho wo hai volume or speed
aapko samj aa he raha hoga ye sab read karte karte
for example agr wo tez bolre ho to aap bhi thoda tez bolo
agr wo dheere bolre ho to aapko bhi dheere unki tarah bolna hai
or fir aap aishe bolne ke rythm or pitch ko bhi achese sync kar sakte ho


Now last V aata hai VOCAL ka jo
matlab jo words or baate aap bolte ho saamne waale se baat karte hue
ye itna important topic nhi hai but mai itna kehdu ki aap kya bolre ho
usse zyada farq nhi padta aapki tone or body language se usko samj ajata hai sab
isliye verbal bus 7% important hai communication mai

NO.3 CONGRUITY
aisa kayi baar hota hai ki hum koi movie ya serial dekh rahe hote hai
hume ye sab pata to hota hai ki ye sab real nhi hai balke fake hai
but fir bhi jab humara koi favourite character us movie mai marr jaata hai
to hume iska bura lagne lagta hai
hum gussa hojate hai or kayi log to rone bhi lagte hai
ye pata hone ke baad bhi ki ye sab nakli fake hai
hum saari cheeze jo us movie mai dikhai jaati hai hum usme believe karne lagte hai
or hum usse emotionally connect bhi hojate hai kyu ? ye ek sochne waali baat hai
well iska reason hai congruity
kyuki jo ache actors hote hai wo acting karte time communicati ke 3V ko hamesha
CONGUENT rakhte hai matlab unki body language visual ,voicetone,verbal ye teeno cheeze
 ek dusre se congruent hoti hai
isiliye hume unki acting real or believeable lagti hai
similarly agr aap bhi chahte ho to ki log aappe believe kare
aapke saat emotional connections banaye
to aap bhi congruity rakho

matlab aisa nhi ho ki aap body language se ek dare hue insaan lagre ho
or bus aapki voice mai confidence lag raha hai ye nhi
balke confident aapki bod language mai aapki voice tone mai
or verbal  in teeno cheezo mai confidence dikhna chahiye
HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECONDS part 2

 to dosto abhi mai teen 3 part mai se in do topic MEETING or
RAPPORT ko cover kiya hai
or JO 2nd part hai communicate hai jisme mai aapko batauge ki
 aapko dusro se milke kya kya baat kaise krne chahiye
wo sab explain kruga kyuki bolte waqt logo ko samj nahi aata ki wo kya baat kare ?
kya bolke conversation ko interesting banaye? jisse logo ko unki company pasnd aaye
so ye kyuki kaafi bada or IMPORTANT topic hai so mai isko next post mai explain kruga
abhii maine aapko jitni bhi cheeze batayi hai unko aap jaake practically apply karo
 bus ghar mai meri post ek baar read krne se kuch nhi hoga aapko baar baar try
karne hai dheere dheere itna aapme confidence ajayega ki aap kisi bhi randon
person se baat kar sakoge
kyuki aaj kal hum apna time cell phone mai itna zyada spend krre hai ki
reality mai face to face conversation krne mai or weak hojare hai us wajah se
isi liye try kro ki zyada logo ke saat milo unse face to face baate kro
ye sab topics ko yaad rakho ya kisi ke saat date pe jaare ho to ek baar ye
post read krlo ye post ko achese save krlo next point or bhi bht khaas hone waala
hai or aapko isi blog mai details ke saat milega kyuki yaha mai practial
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HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECONDS IN HINDI BY NICHOLAS BOOTHMAN 
kisi ko bhi apne paas attract kaise kare 90 seconds mai
how to make anyone like you in just 90 second in hindi
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