HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECOND SUMMARY IN HINDI PART 2

HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 90 SECONDS part 2
click here to read first part how to make people like you in 90 seconds

hey dosto
ek time tha jab muje mere dosto or ghar waalo ke siwa kisi se
bhi baat karna nahi jamta tha kayi baar to mai darr bhi jaata tha
kyuki kya baat karna chahiye kaise baat karna chahiye muje samj nhi aata tha 
or isiliye mai kabhi kisi new insaan ya relative se milta tha tab muje
bht nervous or ajeeb feel hota tha jiske wajah se he mai kabhi kisi se
achese baat nhi kar paata tha
lekin fir dheere dheere bhot saare technique book se sikh kr
or unhe apply karne ke baad ab aisa hogya hai ki aaj mai kisi bhi random
insaan se unse pheli baar milke he jitni chahu utni baat kar sakta hu
even unlog se bhi jo bht kam bolte hai or shy type ke hote hai
matlab jona ke barabar reply krte hai unse bhi

so agr aapko bhi aisa insaan bana hai jo kisi se bhi freely baat kar
paye kisi se bhi bina dare ghabraye ya zyada soche ki kya bolna chahiye ya nhi
to abhi mai aapko bhi kuch aise principles batauga jo aapko bhi
kaafi help karege
maine pichli post mai aapko (how to make people like you in 90 seconds )
ke 3 steps 1 MEETING  2 RAPPORT explain kar diya tha agr aapne wo abhi
tak read nhi kiye to sabse phele wo read kijiye aapko bht sikhe ko milega
fir ye post uska second part read kijiye click here to read first part

now aaj mai aapko 3rd stage jo ki communication se releated hai uske
uske mai aapko kuch awesome technique batauga
to chaliye sikhe hai guies mera naam hai kaunain
or aapko meri blog mai bht saare useful knowledge waale
post mil jaige ek baar aap content check kro aapko bht psnd aaege
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SO LET's BEGIN
1) OPEN AND CLOSED QUESTIONS
kayi baar aisa hota hai ki hum kisise baat krne ki koshish karte hai
but humare bht saare interstings questions or baate karne ke baad bhi
hume bus haa ya naa bus aise chote reply ke he jawaab milte hai
jisse hum baat ko aage nahi badha paate or waps us awkward situation
mai pahauch jaate hai jaha hum kabhi bhi nhi jaana chahte

EXAMPLE-: mai ek party mai jaata hu jaha mera koi friend nhi rehta
to mai sochta hu ki mai kisi se baat karke time spend karu
ab muje darr to lag he raha hota hai par mai fir bhi
himmat karke ek ladki se baat krna start karta hu
kuch aise

me: hello
fir jawab mai aata hai
girl:hi
me: party kaafi achi haina
girl: haan achi hai
me: tum suraj ki dost ho
girl: han han right
me: mai bhi
me : kya tum drink krti ho
girl: nhi
me: well mai bhi nhi karta
girl: acha acha good
girl: got to go bye
me: yup thanks bye

ye jo maine example diya hu ye shayad bht se log ko samj nhi aaya hoga
ki maine kya galti kiya us ladki se bat karte waqt or yahi reason bhi hai
zyada logo ki comunication skills achi nhi hoti
kyuki dekho questions puchte hue aap logo se bht saari baate kar sakte ho
lekin bht baat kar paane ke liye aapko saamne waal se sahi type ke questions puchna
aana chahiye

dekho questions 2 type ke hote hai

1. CLOSED QUESTIONS ( jo usually insaan ko band karne lagte hai or chote answer
                      dene ke liye encourage karte hai)
                      jaise abhi aapko maine apna or us ladki k saat example bataya
1. OPEN QUESTIONS  (OEPN questions dusro ko or zyada baat karne ke liye encourage
                    karta hai)
EXAMPLE-: samjho saara scene same hai
bus abhi mai closed questions puchne ke bajaye open question puchuga usi ladki se
to kuch aisa hoga

me: hello mera naam kaunain hai
girl:hi mera naam aaliya
random question
me: aisi party ki tumhe sabse achi baat kya lagti hai
girl:well muje aisi party mai aake loud music sunna or dance dekhna bht psnd hai

guies agr aap aise open questions puchte ho to saamne waala chota reply de he nhi sakta
or jisse hoga ye ki aap baat ko asani se aage badha sakoge easily

and similarly tum suraj ki dost hona usse acha ye puchna better hoga ki
tum or suraj kaise friend bane
or tumhare hisab se drinking karna kyu galat hai etc etc.
dosto ye sab open questons ke example hai
kyuki ye saamne waale  ko zyada bolne ke liye encourage karte hai
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or ek disclamer agr aisa open questions puchne ke baad bhi
saamne waala interested nhi lagra hai to yahi acha hai ki aap ek excuse
deke waha se ek gentlemen ki tarah chale jao
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NO.2 THREADING
open questions puchna aapko saamne waale se lamba answer dil waega
lekin ab aisa nhi hai ki ab aap ye trick pata chalne ke baad bus ek ke baad ek
open questions pucho or bas aisehe baat kro   (nahi)
 balke aap questions puchne ke baad unhe actively suno
actively matlab unpar apna pura dhayn deke kyuki bina unki baato ko sune aap
unki feelings achese se nhi samj paoge or fir rapport bhi create nhi hoga
or na he fir aap awesome technique ka use kar paoge jisko kehte hai THREADING
threading ek aisi technique hai jiska use karke aap baato ko jitna chahe utna
interesting bana sakte hai or wo bhi rapport or emotional connection bana karke 

EXAMPLE : usi mere or us ladki waale scene k baare mai firse baat kare to
jab us ladki ne muje bola ki muje party mai aakar loud music sunna or dance karna psnd
hai to ye reply muje milne ke baad agar mai okay boldeta ya acha nice bolta or dusre
questions puchne laguga to ye cheez itna connection or rapport create nhi karegi
jabke agr mai ye boluga ki thats great matlab tumhe music or dance psnd hai
chaloab tumhare 3 favourite songs batao dance karne ke liye
or aisi type ke questions se unse thread krke connect karke dusri baat karna best hai
kyuki is type ka reply dikhata hai ki aap saamne waale ko actively sunre the
or ye cheez kisi bhi insaan ko bht pasand aati hai or maine is coversation mai
us ladki ke saat threading technique ka bhi use kiya
threading matlab kuch nhi bus us saamne waale ki baato se bus ek word sunke word ya
baat ko pakad kar
us baat se releated kuch or baat karna jaise maine us coversation mai dance or
 music ko pakad kar baat kara
threading sachmai ek bhot kamaal ki technique hai jise aap master krloge
to aap kisi se bhi baat karte hue atkoge  nahi
ya baat krte waqt aisa nhi sochoge aap ki aage baat kya karna hai
kyuki aapko itne mauke dikhne lagege baat aage badhane ke liye so aap ise
zarur use or practice karo

NO.3 QUESTIONS WORDS
matlab wh-type questions
why what where when how who
kyu kya kaha  kab kaise kon

ye saare questions words ka use karna aapko baat aage badhane mai bht help karege
kyuki inke answers dene ke liye saamne waale ko cheeze explain karna padta hai
or zyada tar time jab koi explain karta hai to wo apne emotional level pe aane lagta hai
jo rapport ke liye bht acha hota hai or in words se start hone waale question bht
ache open questions hote hai
example : kyu tumhe fish nhi psnd (why)
ye city mai tum kab settle hue(when)
tumhe ye baat kaise pata(how)
konsi jagah tum jaana chahate ho (where)
tum life mai sbse zyada pyaar kise karte ho(who)
tumhara passion kya hai(what)
or aise he bht saare questions etc etc.
aise type ke questions bht ache hote hai
or aap ek baat yaad rakho ki in saare questions se topic se aap
usse ek aisi baat pe leke aao jisse baat krne mai aap dono ko maza aae
kyuki jaise maine aapko ye post ke 1st part mai bataya hai ki we love
people with similarity

hume wo log zyada pasand jinke ideas thoughts or pasand humare jaisi hoti hai
to isliye try kro ki aap common terms pe aake baat karo

NO.4 TALKING IN COLOURS
2 type ke log hote hai
kuch aise hote hai jo boring se boring story ko ya unke saat hue kisi
incident aise intersting tarike se batete hai ki sab log unki baato ko bht dhyan
se sunte hai or unki baat sunke enjoy bhi karte hai
jabke kuch log aise hote hai jo achi se achi story ko aise batate hai ki
kisi ko bhi sunne mai maza nhi aata hai or log unki baaato mai interest nhi lete hai
well iska reason kya hai ? iska reason waise to bhot saare ho sakte hai
jaise ke energy level , confidence, way of speaking,
lekin in saare reasons mai ek sabse bada reason hota hai
(LACK OF TALKING IN COLOUR)
talkings in colours matlab apne experience ki saamne waale ke dimag mai ek
painting banana or jitna achese aap ye karoge utna intersting aap logo ko lagoge
EXAMPLE: agar mai aapko aake bolu ki :- yaar aaj traffic bht tha mai pareshan hogya
to ye baat sunne mai aapko itni interesting nahi lagegi kyuki meri ye baat zyada
aapko itne imagine karne ke liye encourage nahi karegi aapka dimag black and white he rahega
ye sunne ke baad
lekin same cheez bolte time agr mai aapko colours ke saat imagine karau ki wo scene kaisa tha
aapke pure senses ko pictures mai dikhate hue aapke brain mai
jaise ki muje kya dikh raha tha ,kya sunai de raha tha ,kaisa feel ho raha tha,
kaisi smell aa rahi thi etc etc.
to ye cheez sunne mai bhot interesting ho jaigi
meri phele waale baat ki he example du to

mai jab aaj bike chalate hue jab ghar aara tha tab mausam santre(orange fruit) jaisa
ekdam orange type ka hogya tha maza aarahi thi bike chalane mai
ekdam thandi thandi hawa chal rahi thi or mai ride bhot enjoy kar raha tha
or fir achanak itni tez bijli kadki mere kaan ekdam sunn jaisa hogya
or itni awaaz sunke mai darr gaya or fir kya barish hone lagi ekdam se
or paani ki bunde mere mu par zor zor se chubne lagi or uske baad thode he aage gaya
to dekha pura road traffic se ekdam bhara hua tha horn ki zor zorse awaaze arahi hai
sab chilla rahe hai ruk ruk ke gaadi chalate hue ekdam dimag kharab hogya
or fir uper se u know mere saamne kachre ki gaadi aakar khade hogyi itni badbu aari
thina usse or uper se rain coat bhi bhul gaya tha pura gila gila lag raha tha or smell aari thi
or smell gandi sungte hue muje ruk ruk ke ghar aana padha

abhi ke liye ye best example to nhi hai but aapko samj agaya hoga ki kaise maine
aapke dimag mai wo paintings banane ki koshish kara aapke saare senses ko picture mai
laate hue
or similarly aap baato ko aisehe interesting banana chahate ho to ye technique ka use kro
jisse kehte hai TALKING IN COLOURS

so ek baar saare important points ko rewise karte hai
1. aap hamesha dusro se open questions pucho naki close question taaki
log aapse freely lambi baat kar sakte
2.aap dusro ki baato ko gaur se dhayn deke suno  taaki aap unki feelings ko
samaj pao or saat he saat unse threading technique ka use karke rapport bhi create kar pao
3. aap wh-type question jaise ki kyu kya kab kaise kaha kidher kon in questions words ka
use karo baat krte time or try karo ki kisi common topic mai laane ki jisme aap dono ko
baat karne mai maza aaye
4. black and white baate mat  karo balke aise  colourful baate karo  jisse ki saamne
waala apne imagination ka use kar sake or wo bhi apne most of the senses ko picture mai
laate hue
bus ye the wo 4 technique jisko aap follow karke kisi se bhi kitni bhi BAATE AAGE BADHA SAKTE HO
RAPPORT CREATE KAR SAKTE HO ,CONNECTIONS BANA SAKTE HO , JISSE KI LOG AAPKO BHOT PSND KARNE LAGEGE

guies to agar aapne is post ka phela part read nhi kiye ho to aap usse jaakar read kar sakte ho
nhi to aapko achese ye part samj nahi aaega or aap achese connections nahi bana paoge
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